THAT family member
Posted 25 January 2016 - 02:12 AM
Mine is prob my grandfather. He is idolozed by most of the family - but I just can't see it. To me he's an opinionated jerk that just goes round making people feel shit about themselves. He doesn't do it to me personally, but he's a total dick to my mum and everyone else and always has been.
So, who is your THAT family member? Mother in law amirite? Step sister? or crazy old uncle Tom?
Posted 25 January 2016 - 01:19 PM
I also suspect I might be that person for my family. It seems we have a type here? For me though, it'd be what I affectionately call my second sister, or "The Deuce", if you will. I'm like 80% sure she's a sociopath, or at the very least, mostly made up of some sort of evil. But like, that shitty kind of evil where they're not actively aware of the atrocities they commit, so they somehow think they're a good person, y'know? Yeah. That kind.
Anyway, most of that feeling is because she's really done a number on our little tribe when she took a crack at being a parent, with emphasis on the 'crack' part. Those poor children. I mean yeah, they'll grow up rough enough to be the survivors with necklaces of human ears in the apocalypse, but at the cost of never really having a childhood. Add to that the thievery, lies, verbal as well as physical abuse, not to mention betrayal of all calibers and you've got The Deuce. I know as her brother I should probably have her back, and I do feel a kind of shame deep down that I don't, but at the same time I'll see that bitch in hell and we can mend fences then I reckon.
Posted 28 January 2016 - 05:26 AM
err my family is filled with quite nice people. yeah all of us can be dicks now and again but.....
em i suspect you are most like your grandfather (in a particular respect anyway) so you see, if not act upon, that behaviour. i do the same, we all share a cruel sense of humour in my family. y'know rip the piss out of the people in the rest of the immediate family till it negatively effects their behaviour, self, ego and id. yeah every family like that i know, but with me i can forget you're not supposed to do it to the normals and i really have to stop myself (coz i'm a nice guy y'know) from picking on certain people. coz some people just smell like they want, no they need to be bullied. to not bully them is the best way to bully them. like loa sun tau says "fight your enemy where they aren't" (of course I've not read "the art of war", I was unlucky enough to watch "battleship")
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Posted 30 January 2016 - 03:23 AM
em i suspect you are most like your grandfather (in a particular respect anyway) so you see, if not act upon, that behaviour.
I dont think I make people feel shit about themselves
no no NO! emma id never think you would, you silly goose. I'm just saying that i think its easier to recognise a trait in someone else, if you understand it in yourself. i guess i think you have the potential to be mean..... i have the potential to be cruel, doesn't mean i do it
Edited by w00dy, 30 January 2016 - 03:27 AM.
Posted 30 January 2016 - 02:28 PM
My mother. She's poisonous to any sense of well-being. My sister and I have a ....vehement dislike/pity relationship going on with her.
i genuinely can't start to imagine
Posted 03 February 2016 - 12:39 AM
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